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Yesterday I met my friend that I never see since two years ago. So, we talked about life journey since we have been away too long. He asked me, have you ever thought that if only you had been born rich then you would have the world at your fingertips? Do you get in your own way?

Or you only dreamer and just said, how I wish… if only I was born rich… or won a lottery…and bla-bla-bla…then nobody will be hungry or poor and my family will not suffer anymore from money problem…how I wish… You are not wrong what you hope.

Maybe you would share all that I have to the poor people. You will build a foundation for those who cannot study because of financial problem, just like a scholarship program. You hope can does all these things.

You can hopes like I will not be able to get my father, or my mother, who has all along been very much encouraging. Money can play little role in making you happy - and I think we should have the self confidence to earn that much to fulfill our dreams.

They did their best sacrificing their happiness to bring me up. Had I been born in a reach family, I doubt if my parents would be able to afford so much time for me.

I do not think I will persevere if i had been born rich. I will not exert efforts to get what i want. I will not analyze things because they could easily be molded according to what i like. Come to think of it, most of those who became super rich are those that persevere, those that analyze what is around them, those that exert efforts to get what they wanted.

Meanwhile, it is a common view of most of us that if we had so much material wealth, we shall have a fuller life. As many things in life it seems what is popular is not always right. Wealth allows us to do a lot more things but there is a saying all a poor young man really needs most is a good education.

As a general rule, rich people are enslaved or one or more of the following fear or loss, excessive comfort, superiority complex, lack of time, too many (false) friends, and very few real friends, substance abuse, overall lack of peace of mind.

The real security is to keep learning to do new things. Perhaps my priority is to learn to do something new every day. Rich or poor, people face various forms of adversity. Everyone will benefit if all felt the “joy of learning to do as a response to adversity.

The key is to feel, not just to know, To feel, not just to have; To feel so we can try to do and consequently learn more.” Those who love will always try to do  and will always learn. Those who love are, in the strictest sense, the richest people on the planet. That is make freedom man and we are freedom from the known. Absolutely in life nothing forever and we never found that. We life to have or to be!

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Almost parents do not wonder and not ‘blessed’ with respectful children. They teach their children respect. It is not something that comes naturally.

People who give respect to their children and to others, and who expect the same in return, have respectful children. The same is true for well-behaved children. It doesn’t just happen, the parents teach their children to behave well. 

Why people have been blessed with respectful children because it’s an obvious answer. Those who have respectful children were good parents who taught there kids right from wrong, who taught there kids manors.

During life they meet other people but their basis is with parents and they are responsible for a bad child as the child is responsible for its behavior. Parents have to set an example for your kids and by doing the right thing your child will learn. If you do the wrong thing then they will learn that too.

Children follow many things from their parents only. I have my own experiences. So it is all in the hands of the parents to bring up a respectful child or spoil the child. They try to copy many words, actions and other mannerisms from their parents. It is at home that they are at their finial stages of life. SO everything they see, observe and watch sets well in their little mind.

Part if it comes from the disposition they are born with. I have known respectful children that came from horrid homes and visa versa. But most of the way the child acts and responds is a direct reflection of the way they are raised and their parents. They are little mirrors of their parents beliefs and morals.

I fell that I am blessed with wonderful children who have a great capacity of learn and develop…but their level of respect isn’t quite a blessing…it is a constant work in progress with the help of my guiding and directing.