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Every year in September many people consider Halloween as very important event in their lives. Halloween until today is one more popular than ever and a favorite holiday for people of all ages. Usually, people are getting ready for Halloween not to have a party, use dress and make up with scary or outrageous costumes for home, school, college, and other celebrations at any places.

Some people celebrate to visit their loved ones in the cemetery, home decoration, and so on. It’s a fun activity for kids too. Kids wear costumes and go door to door giving candies to people and getting candy for the kids and having one night where strangers are good people.

When Halloween party’s they consider this a big event 2-3 days off from office and school. Because they would travel far to spend time and celebrate with their family or loved ones.  So where is another place to make party? Make party at home, visited a friend or anything to make fun and prepare food and have a feast in there.

But most people will spend time to the cemetery with their long dead loved ones. Most people celebrate with visit cemetery because it was more of a family reunion when they go to the cemetery. That is how they celebrate Halloween.

Halloween is our favorite holiday. It gives us all a chance to use our imagination. At the family usually want to try and find something unique. Maybe eat some fun foods, dress, anything unique and made Halloween interesting. It is just a fun time!

Halloween parties in some pubs but it is not something popular. People end up going out to clubs to dance where they do have Halloween parties. Of course parties such as those can get carried away. But meanwhile, for all saints day people use to go to the cemetery, clean the tombs and bring flowers. There are some special sweets with the shape of little “saint’s bones” and in some theatres they play Don Juan that has also a relation with live and death.

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As a parent you sure know usually or have problem kids do get rebellious about homework and you don’t blame them. I know it gets kind of frustrating when kids don’t tend to listen to you when you tell them something for their good. Some parent see it is very critical position because parents are seeing it as a problem.

Many book about child psychology explain parents that has no particular pattern. One stressed it is individual grasping based development. Parents to know is healthy approach developed when parents normally do everything with the child what they were doing before our kid started to go to school.

Most of the parents make things more important connected with school. A child can not cope with speech and style of the teacher/s. If a teacher can not include child properly in the learning process then also child’s reactions are so different that s/he can silently oppose to do any thing related with that and home work be part of that.

This situation creates illusion in child’s mind that what ever we are not doing connected with school is not okay. Why? So don’t think that she or he is going to school and have to do homework. Let him or her mind prepared by learning to do the things. Give kids like some lee way about when and where as long as kid promises to do it.

There are few remedies to talk with the child about what has happened in school when you have started to go to school. What ever is happening in school is also normal and nothing to worry about! What is a good way or good ways to make doing homework more like fun instead of a have to do it thing?

- Try using positive reinforcements and then using a behavioral chart

- Give a time. For a while let him/her see the natural consequences of him/her actions. It means, parents can talk to the teacher about this concern, so the teacher will verbally praise and reward all those who accomplished their home work. And he/she, having an unanswered homework, will not be rewarded or praised.

- Teach with actions to do not allow watch TV until kid has it done. Some times they just like to feel some freedom. Give her a time frame when it must be done say by 2:00 or when ever you think she should be finished with it.

- Teach and intensive communication with kids. Parents teach about if it is alright with him/her that we want to do their homework. Example, when your kids were growing up you told them they had to do their homework. You made them do it, even if you had to sit down with them and help them.

- Then try to make him or her sit down and talk to them very politely. And then tell him/her:

“See my dear if you don’t do this now then you will never become like your parents. They give you what ever you want but you won’t be able to do the same like them. So if you want to become a big and good person in life do your homework like a nice good girl. Mummy and daddy also did their homework when they were small like you…”

Well, there are possibilities, but I hope it will help you little.