Closer Relationship with Your Teenagers
November 4, 2008 6:49 am parenting teenagersAs parents, I know that it’s hard to building a good relationship with your teenagers (son or daughter). But, one more think and important to building is should focus on positive values. Teen age is hard period for son or our daughter. They are the most difficult years of their lives.
As a teenager, their physics, body and spirit of change and maturation, which can be frustrate, confuse, difficult times, and need to problem solving. Absolutely, parents have responsibilities to help them. And as parent, you should be know and understand that teenagers are in motion of thought specifically on childhood to adulthood as the abstract thinking.
First step for parents build relationship with teenagers is should focus on positive values. It is means when someone which is a good friend is a good start for most teenagers. During printing peer attracts teenagers, parents should take the time to explain their teenager what is necessary, namely teen relationship.
Teens need to know on the ups and downs in all relationships. And then, parents help to explain also with action about what is necessary teen relationship with parents.
It is important that teenager take their time to their parent advice on relationships as well. Teen relationships are not the last a lifetime, never be lately. Every time and everywhere, not only at home, you can make it with your teenager. Teen relationship should be fun, easy going experience.
So, how can you have a closer relationship with your teen? How can you make it friendly? I think with communicate effectively with your teen. Their ability to communicate effectively with your teen is one of develop valuable skills to achieve that goal. This is not always easy and needed intensively ways to communicate with your teen.
What can parents do if this happen? How you open and get closer communicate effectively with your teen?
First, clearly questions. It is mean the questions may be crucial for communicating with your teen. Ask about questions that not only answered “yes” or “no” stronger. Always try to open wide your communicated. Remember, communicate can be easy and first step to open everything.
Second, focus. Give your full attention for your teen. Maybe this is a toughie, because we tend to be so busy. It seems like we are always multi-tasking. But, if not do that, how you can build your relationships? Also, problems never end, and that is needs communicate to ways out.
Try check out the details. Listen to what your teen is really saying! Teens rare answers on issues, so that the details that may be of importance. And then, speak also keep following the action fit. In this way, parents have problem that in the race is looking for penalty break the rules.
However, the penalty is applied as a general rule not under the action teen. But, if we believe, communication, we tend to think about how we can express us. Good luck!
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