Adoption is not Like Shopping for a New Car
October 6, 2008 9:27 am parenting adviceHave we ever thought of adopting a child when you already a parent. Do we really show the same love and affection towards the adopted child? What are people’s motives for adopting were? Do you think it’s because they want to have children and that is the only way for them.
Or do you it’s because they because they really want to give a child a home? If it is to help the child, why do so many people its because they newborns privately for thousands of dollars instead of people its free children from foster care?
If they are people it’s because they because they it’s only have children, do you think the child would feel second rate, like he or she is just the last resort? What kind people its only would this have on the child and do you think people who feel this way should be allowed to of its.
Have you ever thought or would you like to it’s only in the near to its for adoption is that when couples are childless they would like to near so that they have someone to look after them when they get older. For most people, the initial reason they want near children is they not getting their own kids. Adoption is not like shopping for a new car. Yet, there is no harm to allow the parents with the reason to near children. But children should not be near as a charity case.
It puts too much pressure on them to feel grateful, like they owe their parents something, and much more. The idea to be able to give a child a home that they can always call their own to me is one of the nicest things we could do for a child without a home will better for the children anyway, to have a ‘real’ parents than to live in a children’ home.
Well, I don’t mean that living in one nicest thing is not good, not at all. But having their own parents, home and family is the ‘basic needs’ of children.
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Date: October 10, 2008 @ 1:12 pm
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Date: October 11, 2008 @ 8:49 am
i agreed with you. we should that, adopt children for help and prepare better life children. thanks for your comment.