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Yesterday I met my friend that I never see since two years ago. So, we talked about life journey since we have been away too long. He asked me, have you ever thought that if only you had been born rich then you would have the world at your fingertips? Do you get in your own way?

Or you only dreamer and just said, how I wish… if only I was born rich… or won a lottery…and bla-bla-bla…then nobody will be hungry or poor and my family will not suffer anymore from money problem…how I wish… You are not wrong what you hope.

Maybe you would share all that I have to the poor people. You will build a foundation for those who cannot study because of financial problem, just like a scholarship program. You hope can does all these things.

You can hopes like I will not be able to get my father, or my mother, who has all along been very much encouraging. Money can play little role in making you happy - and I think we should have the self confidence to earn that much to fulfill our dreams.

They did their best sacrificing their happiness to bring me up. Had I been born in a reach family, I doubt if my parents would be able to afford so much time for me.

I do not think I will persevere if i had been born rich. I will not exert efforts to get what i want. I will not analyze things because they could easily be molded according to what i like. Come to think of it, most of those who became super rich are those that persevere, those that analyze what is around them, those that exert efforts to get what they wanted.

Meanwhile, it is a common view of most of us that if we had so much material wealth, we shall have a fuller life. As many things in life it seems what is popular is not always right. Wealth allows us to do a lot more things but there is a saying all a poor young man really needs most is a good education.

As a general rule, rich people are enslaved or one or more of the following fear or loss, excessive comfort, superiority complex, lack of time, too many (false) friends, and very few real friends, substance abuse, overall lack of peace of mind.

The real security is to keep learning to do new things. Perhaps my priority is to learn to do something new every day. Rich or poor, people face various forms of adversity. Everyone will benefit if all felt the “joy of learning to do as a response to adversity.

The key is to feel, not just to know, To feel, not just to have; To feel so we can try to do and consequently learn more.” Those who love will always try to do  and will always learn. Those who love are, in the strictest sense, the richest people on the planet. That is make freedom man and we are freedom from the known. Absolutely in life nothing forever and we never found that. We life to have or to be!