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Almost parents do not wonder and not ‘blessed’ with respectful children. They teach their children respect. It is not something that comes naturally.

People who give respect to their children and to others, and who expect the same in return, have respectful children. The same is true for well-behaved children. It doesn’t just happen, the parents teach their children to behave well. 

Why people have been blessed with respectful children because it’s an obvious answer. Those who have respectful children were good parents who taught there kids right from wrong, who taught there kids manors.

During life they meet other people but their basis is with parents and they are responsible for a bad child as the child is responsible for its behavior. Parents have to set an example for your kids and by doing the right thing your child will learn. If you do the wrong thing then they will learn that too.

Children follow many things from their parents only. I have my own experiences. So it is all in the hands of the parents to bring up a respectful child or spoil the child. They try to copy many words, actions and other mannerisms from their parents. It is at home that they are at their finial stages of life. SO everything they see, observe and watch sets well in their little mind.

Part if it comes from the disposition they are born with. I have known respectful children that came from horrid homes and visa versa. But most of the way the child acts and responds is a direct reflection of the way they are raised and their parents. They are little mirrors of their parents beliefs and morals.

I fell that I am blessed with wonderful children who have a great capacity of learn and develop…but their level of respect isn’t quite a blessing…it is a constant work in progress with the help of my guiding and directing.

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One most important thing parents want most of them are that parents have given children all the life skills to move into adulthood to be independent and to do well in their lives.

Skills to children that I intend to teach my children beyond the normal schooling and so many factors are things like budgeting which is important as then you know what you can spend and when while making sure you have enough spare to enjoy life.

But remember, child is best teacher about what he or she needs, from infancy on. Listen more than you talk. Listen with your heart. Whatever child does, it will be a lot easier for you to respond productively if you avoid getting hooked.

Teaching skills essential is to manage yourself. Intervene before your own feelings get out of hand. Take care of yourself so you aren’t venting on your kids. The deepest reason kids cooperate is that they love you and want to please you. Above all, safeguard the relationship.

Maybe parents can tries like cookery is another one, cookery is important as it means the child will then be able to cook for themselves without having to learn most of it, as I did, when you want to be doing more fun things when going to university (college to Americans).

Manners is an obvious one, please and thank and thinking about how your actions effect others is an important part of becoming an adult. There are more I just cant thinks of them right now.

Anyway, as my parents told me, successful parent is simply only love your child, help them always to be happy and to follow their dreams. Do not ever put them down or make them think they aren’t worthy.

Children can learn anything they need skill wise at school if they need it, a parent should be there to teach them how to be morally strong and healthy and to grow up with a good sense of what is right and wrong. I think parents can try it. It just simple ways.

What worked yesterday will not work tomorrow, so to teaching skill for children need to evolve as your kids do. Each of us seems to get the perfect to learn whatever we need to know.